The Secret to Calling in the Love You Deserve
Most of us have been told that love is something we earn. That if we just looked a little better, played the game right, or fit into some perfect mold, we’d finally be chosen.
But what if I told you the most magnetic thing you could do to attract your dream love… is to be unapologetically YOU?
💡 When you stop performing for love and start living in full alignment with who you are, the right love recognizes you.
Here’s how to attract deep, soulful, life-changing love without chasing, forcing, or settling.
What’s Blocking You from Attracting the Love You Want?
We live in a world that tells women:
"Be feminine, but not too much."
"Be easygoing, but have high standards."
"Be confident, but don’t intimidate anyone."
"Be loveable, but don’t be too much."
The result? You shrink. You filter. You perform.
And in doing so, you block the kind of real, deep, aligned love you actually crave.
How I Attracted My Greatest Love (By Not Looking for It)
I didn’t meet my partner by searching, chasing, or trying to be the "perfect" version of myself.
I met him when I was the most myself I had ever been.
✨ Fresh out of a breakup, I wasn’t looking for love—I was looking for myself.
✨ I sat with my heartache. I let myself feel everything until all that was left was purity.
✨ I connected with my ancestors, traveled to Colombia, and guided a women’s circle at a wellness event.
And at that event? Love found me.
💡 Because love always recognizes authenticity.
3 Steps to Attracting Love Through Authenticity
🔥 Step 1: Devote Yourself to YOU First
Before seeking love, build a relationship with your own heart.
Romanticize your rituals, your art, your life.
Love yourself as if you are already deeply loved.
🔥 Step 2: Drop the Masks
Stop asking, “Who do I need to be to attract love?” and start asking, “Who am I really?”
Identify where you’re performing instead of being.
The love that’s meant for you can only see you when you stop hiding.
🔥 Step 3: Follow What Feels Alive
Do the things that make you feel most YOU.
Say yes to experiences that make you come alive.
Love will find you when you’re fully immersed in your own essence.
Your Challenge: Step Into More Authenticity This Week
Pick ONE way you’ve been shrinking, performing, or holding back and let it go.
Drop it in the comments: What’s ONE action you’ll take this week to step deeper into your true self?
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🔥 You don’t have to chase love. You just have to be so fully yourself that the right love recognizes you.