The Secret to Calling in the Love You Deserve

Most of us have been told that love is something we earn. That if we just looked a little better, played the game right, or fit into some perfect mold, we’d finally be chosen.

But what if I told you the most magnetic thing you could do to attract your dream love… is to be unapologetically YOU?

💡 When you stop performing for love and start living in full alignment with who you are, the right love recognizes you.

Here’s how to attract deep, soulful, life-changing love without chasing, forcing, or settling.

What’s Blocking You from Attracting the Love You Want?

We live in a world that tells women:

  • "Be feminine, but not too much."

  • "Be easygoing, but have high standards."

  • "Be confident, but don’t intimidate anyone."

  • "Be loveable, but don’t be too much."

The result? You shrink. You filter. You perform.

And in doing so, you block the kind of real, deep, aligned love you actually crave.

How I Attracted My Greatest Love (By Not Looking for It)

I didn’t meet my partner by searching, chasing, or trying to be the "perfect" version of myself.

I met him when I was the most myself I had ever been.

✨ Fresh out of a breakup, I wasn’t looking for love—I was looking for myself.

✨ I sat with my heartache. I let myself feel everything until all that was left was purity.

✨ I connected with my ancestors, traveled to Colombia, and guided a women’s circle at a wellness event.

And at that event? Love found me.

💡 Because love always recognizes authenticity.

3 Steps to Attracting Love Through Authenticity

🔥 Step 1: Devote Yourself to YOU First

  • Before seeking love, build a relationship with your own heart.

  • Romanticize your rituals, your art, your life.

  • Love yourself as if you are already deeply loved.

🔥 Step 2: Drop the Masks

  • Stop asking, “Who do I need to be to attract love?” and start asking, “Who am I really?”

  • Identify where you’re performing instead of being.

  • The love that’s meant for you can only see you when you stop hiding.

🔥 Step 3: Follow What Feels Alive

  • Do the things that make you feel most YOU.

  • Say yes to experiences that make you come alive.

  • Love will find you when you’re fully immersed in your own essence.

Your Challenge: Step Into More Authenticity This Week

Pick ONE way you’ve been shrinking, performing, or holding back and let it go.

Drop it in the comments: What’s ONE action you’ll take this week to step deeper into your true self?

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🔥 You don’t have to chase love. You just have to be so fully yourself that the right love recognizes you.

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