You’re Not Late, You’re Right on Time

The Sacred Art of Blooming in Your Own Season

Have you ever felt like you’re falling behind? Like everyone else is racing ahead and you’re somehow stuck, off-track, or “late” to your own life?

Oh, beautiful one—pause right there. Breathe with me. Because what if I told you... you’re not late. You’re blooming. And the rhythm of your life is not broken—it’s sacred.

In this soul-stirring episode of Your Tru Awakening, I sat down with my dear friend and fellow mystic, Kimberly Small, to unravel the myth of being “behind.” Together, we explored the subtle power of divine timing, the importance of cultivating inner spaciousness, and why comparison is often just a longing to belong.

🌱 Trust the Unfolding

Kimberly and I reflected on our past lives in New York City—high-paced, hustle-heavy, grayscale versions of ourselves—and how stepping into our truth meant slowing down, softening, and tuning in. Now living in Miami, surrounded by green and sun, our work centers on inner evolution and nervous system restoration. Because growth that’s truly sustainable doesn’t come from pushing—it comes from allowing.

So let me offer you this:

Blooming isn’t about hustling harder. It’s about creating the right conditions for your soul to emerge—naturally, gently, and in divine time.

🌸 Acceptance Is Alchemy

So many of us are trying to force outcomes—rushing to the next milestone, gripping tightly to our visions, comparing ourselves to others as if someone else’s success timeline is the template for our own. But the real shift happens when we trust what is. Not just tolerate it—trust it. Even the friction. Even the squeeze. Especially the pause.

Kimmy reminded us to whisper the mantra:

“I trust this too.”

It’s medicine. It creates a softening. It teaches the nervous system to rest, not because you’ve given up, but because you’ve finally remembered how held you truly are.

🌹 Let Comparison Be a Compass, Not a Cage

Comparison isn’t evil—it’s data. It’s direction. The key is how we use it.

Instead of collapsing into “I’m not enough,” what if we said:

“Wow, something in me is lit up by what I see in her. What is that spark pointing me toward in myself?”

Jealousy and admiration are simply mirrors, inviting you to celebrate what already lives in you. Archetypal work, deity work, even observing beauty in nature—all of it speaks to the subconscious in symbols. When you’re triggered or turned on by someone’s expression, that’s your own potential knocking.

You’re not meant to copy her. You’re meant to awaken to you.

🌊 The Power of Devotional Living

The antidote to comparison, to burnout, to misalignment—is devotion.

Not the kind where you abandon yourself to please others or prove something. No. I’m talking about sacred self-respect. A deep, reverent tending to your own soul. The kind of presence that feels like whispering to your inner child, “I’m here. I see you. Let’s create something beautiful together.”

When you shift from hustle to reverence, everything softens.

And from that softness? True power emerges.

🕊 Nervous System First, Always

Your nervous system is your sacred vessel. And it’s hard to hear divine guidance when you’re stuck in fight, flight, or freeze. That’s why we keep coming back to the body—through breath, grounding, rest, and play.

The “ventral” state of the nervous system is where peace lives. Possibility lives. Creativity lives.

When you live from this state, you don’t just react to life. You co-create with it.

🌳 You Are the Gardener and the Garden

Kimmy and I both believe this: you don’t have to force your way into becoming. You simply have to tend to yourself the way you would a sacred garden.

Right light. Right water. Right nourishment. Right love.

Let your blooming be a celebration of your authenticity, not a performance of perfection.

You are not late, darling.

You are right on time for the masterpiece your soul came here to live.

If this conversation stirred something in you, share it. Let it ripple. And if you’re ready to tend to your own sacred blooming, I’d love to invite you to join Alchemy of the Sacred Feminine—my group program designed to help you drop the performance and rise in your truth.

You are needed. Your expression is divine. And the world is ready for your full bloom.

Connect with Kimberly Small:

Instagram: @Kimberlyjunsmall